So, my dear friends, I have an announcement:
I have just published a self-help book. I wanted to say “a
sort of self-help book,” but I don’t think it would fit into many other
categories. Something about philosophy, perhaps? Or spirituality? But not
quite. Not really either of those.
It’s a book. A short book, which should make for a quick
read. I self-published it through Amazon. It is called The Manifesto. In it I
list 10 ideas that help me to feel freer to be my own authentic self. I talk a
bit about each idea, trying to explain and clarify. I give a few suggestions
for exercises that might be helpful for readers, things I do myself. I don’t
pretend to have all the answers, and I don’t suggest that my perspectives are
the only “right” ones. In the end, I challenge readers to write their own
manifestos for their own freer lives.
Why did I write this little book, when I’m a literary poet
and creative nonfiction writer? Well—it felt urgent. It pushed at me. It seemed
important. As I wrote it, I thought of the people I have been privileged to
support through difficult times. I thought of the students who have cried in my
office (NOT because I made them cry, but because I just listened). I thought of
how much it would have meant to me if someone had said, years ago, that it
might be helpful to try to stop judging myself. I thought maybe a few people
will read this, and it will say something they need to hear. I thought, if even
one person reads it and it says one thing that person needed to hear, then it
is a good thing.
I’m not a self-help expert. I’m not a doctor, yogi,
therapist, philosopher, or guru. I’m just a teacher, writer, reader, friend. I
meditate, but not, I admit, every day. I think a lot of different groups are
onto a lot of really important stuff, but for me, no single formulated ideology
gets everything right for all of us all the time. I think the biggest job each
of us has in this life is to try to figure out ourselves and the world, and any
tool that helps with that job is worth trying. And I think you, my friends, are
very, very smart, and already on the path of figuring out yourselves and the
world, and if anything I say can support you in that endeavor, then I’ll be
honored.
Another question: why did I choose to self-publish, starting
with Kindle, through Amazon, a company some people have political difficulties
with? Really, I just wanted to get the book out. I wanted to have complete
control over it. I didn’t want to have long conversations with editors about
making it “sexier” for the “market.” And I wanted the process to be very simple
and very easy for me, so I could spend my time writing, reading, and teaching.
I’m sorry if it is politically problematic for any of you. There will be a
print version, also through Amazon, but that’s the next step for my tireless
and saintly friend, Jim Miller, who has already volunteered his expertise to
format the book for Kindle. If you don’t own a Kindle, incidentally, you can
get the Kindle app for free on any computer, tablet, or cell phone. Or you can
wait for the print version, which we hope will be available soon.
At this point, I will try to split my posts into “more
literary” things that I put on this blog, and “more manifesto-related” things
that I put on my other blog. I hope you will dip in and read either or both, and perhaps get something from
the reading.
Boundless love and gratitude to all of you.